Among our shared Catholic values, humility is perhaps one that is most meant to inform our daily actions. Everything we do, from our jobs to the way we raise our families, and, as Jesus points out in this week’s gospel reading, the way we pray, is to be done according to the model of humility. Jesus tells those convinced of their own righteousness a parable about a Pharisee and tax collector who both go to a temple to pray. The Pharisee prays with thanks to God that he isn’t like the rest of humanity, such as the tax collector. He lists the good things he does, such as fasting and paying tithes on all his income. Meanwhile, the tax collector keeps his eyes low, humbles himself and begs God to take mercy on him. Jesus says, “I tell you, the latter went home justified, not the former, for everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and the one who humbles himself will be exalted.”

The parable reminds us that when we pray, we must remember to humble ourselves at all times. Often, we are humbled when we experience heartbreak at the loss of loved ones, but it may not be so easy to humble ourselves at other times. The next Psalms verse, 34:20 reinforces how we should acknowledge our shortcomings when seeking redemption: “Many are the troubles of the righteous, but the Lord delivers him from them all.”

With All Soul’s Day coming up, let’s take the opportunity to remember the importance of humbling ourselves at all times, and pray in remembrance for all our faithfully departed. We pray for them, remembering that those being purified have the power to intercede on behalf of the living.

We offer this simple yet powerful prayer card as a way of helping you to connect with your loved ones. Please use this during a quiet moment at a place that was meaningful for you and your loved one.

Pray for our Angels.

*Today’s reflection is inspired by and adapted from the Loyola Press Sunday Connection.